We all know that love is blind, but falling in love with married man should not be ignorant. Love is blind; it is just a saying for young teens who are not in control of their parents. But what if you are mature enough to think about what kind of relationship you are in or if it will go long term. You are quite aware till now from the title, and this will help you clarify your thoughts.
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At one point you are giving yourself to that man who already has a wife, children, and his separate life, you will always be the second option or “other woman”. As we call it for him on times like when he needs to hook up or want to be away from his wife sometimes. Ask yourself some questions if it is right for you and think practically, not emotionally or physically.
Here are a few ways you can follow if you’re falling in love with married man.
- Is he ready to pop the question, or he is just avoiding this topic on being asked?
- Does he always calls you for hook-ups and then alluring you with gifts and money?
- You will always be the second woman in his life regardless of how many times he says that you are my first priority I’ll leave my wife soon do not I repeat do not fall for this.
- A married man will never leave his wife, his first love because of many reasons; he might just be wooing you with words and not actions (the foremost reason he loves his children, who don’t right?)
- He will end up going back to his wife at some point, and who you are left with “NO ONE” just you and your heartbreak.
How to handle if you’re falling in love with married man?
This is what you need to do before he walks out on you only if you have made up your mind of doing it. You need to choose the best path to end this relationship before it gets in your nerves.
First things first start picking up fights for every reason, say no to hookups and meetups, control your emotions and desires, start dating another man, utilize your time in something which distracts you from him, break all the connections and ends with him along with all the ways/ possibilities of getting back with him.
This is your wakeup call my girl, if not now then it will be too late for you to stand for yourself. Remember a cheater always remains one, if he can cheat his wife so does he can on you.
You may be finding happiness and pleasures, but these are only for a while. You are worth much more than attaining the title of “second woman” in your life. If you are not sure with yourself or are having doubts, seek advises from your near and dear ones or even a professional counsellor. Learn to spend time with yourself; do what you love to do. He is not the last person in the entire world, and you know that.
Nice observation